fix(relay): partial update of dependencies

[Litarnus]

This PR updates half of the depencies in relay to see if one of them is problematic.
Cargo.lock is the result of
cargo update --recursive ahash android_trace_log anyhow async-trait axum axum-extra axum-server arc-swap backoff bb8-redis bindgen brotli bytecount bytes bzip2 cadence chrono clap clap_complete cmake console cookie criterion crossbeam-channel data-encoding debugid dialoguer dynfmt ed25519-dalek enumset flate2 fnv futures globset hash32 hex hmac human-size http hyper-util hyper insta ipnetwork json-forensics libc liblzma lru maxminddb memchr md5 mime minidump multer num-traits num_cpus once_cell opentelemetry-proto

ref: #4301

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