feat(s2n-quic-dc): implement cache events #5049

Job	Run time
env	3s
s2n-quic-qns (debug)	2m 31s
s2n-quic-qns (release)	6m 40s
bench	18m 13s
h3spec (s2n-tls)	15s
h3spec (rustls)	19s
attack (udp)	5m 28s
perf (s2n-quic, s2n-quic)	1m 16s
perf (s2n-quic-null, s2n-quic-null)	1m 0s
interop (aioquic, s2n-quic)	19m 30s
interop (chrome, s2n-quic)	5m 28s
interop (go-x-net, s2n-quic)	11m 38s
interop (kwik, s2n-quic)	13m 56s
interop (lsquic, s2n-quic)	12m 57s
interop (msquic, s2n-quic)	16m 59s
interop (mvfst, s2n-quic)	11m 28s
interop (neqo, s2n-quic)	15m 23s
interop (ngtcp2, s2n-quic)	14m 11s
interop (picoquic, s2n-quic)	17m 7s
interop (quic-go, s2n-quic)	12m 41s
interop (quiche, s2n-quic)	15m 18s
interop (quinn, s2n-quic)	14m 2s
interop (s2n-quic, aioquic)	13m 50s
interop (s2n-quic, go-x-net)	11m 30s
interop (s2n-quic, haproxy)	11m 32s
interop (s2n-quic, kwik)	11m 51s
interop (s2n-quic, lsquic)	11m 14s
interop (s2n-quic, msquic)	13m 17s
interop (s2n-quic, mvfst)	13m 53s
interop (s2n-quic, neqo)	13m 3s
interop (s2n-quic, nginx)	11m 12s
interop (s2n-quic, ngtcp2)	13m 5s
interop (s2n-quic, picoquic)	12m 22s
interop (s2n-quic, quic-go)	10m 46s
interop (s2n-quic, quiche)	11m 6s
interop (s2n-quic, quinn)	12m 8s
interop (s2n-quic, s2n-quic)	13m 21s
interop (s2n-quic, s2n-quic-rustls)	12m 10s
interop (s2n-quic, xquic)	5m 38s
interop (s2n-quic-rustls, s2n-quic)	16m 45s
interop (xquic, s2n-quic)	9m 2s
perf-report	16s
interop-report	16s
	7h 24m 40s

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