Add additional parameter for watertight nodeset and sideset check

[DanielYankura]

Motivation

There are times when users may want a single sideset/nodeset to cover an entire mesh. Adding a parameter would allow users to specify which sidesets should be checked for.

Linked to #25278, #28816, and #28822

Design

This parameter should accept one or more sideset ids. If specified, instead of checking if an external node/side has a corresponding nodeset/sideset, it should check if it's associate with the ones provided by the parameter.

Impact

This will add additional capabilities to the mesh diagnostic system and give users more tools for debugging their meshes.