Rid off vlcj library and rely only on vlcj-natives library

[SrRapero720]

some modders decides to be "outsmart" watermedia and uses native callbacks to handle events in native threads (which causes deadlocks and a lot of JVM complains)

this was something addressed by watermedia using the tick-based api and some helpers but nothing stops devs to still use vlcj callbacks

Objective

remove lib-vlcj and base the new new PlayerAPI on native methods (vlcj-natives) instead of the VLCJ

Expectations

v3 API was conceptualized to make possible have multiple impl of a player (including VLC) and let API decide witch player is way better for your PC (FFMPEG or VLCJ). Next implementations might be placed on https://github.com/WaterMediaTeam/watermedia-binaries